The captivating photograph of Elizabeth Meyer.
Since all of Elizabeth’s siblings were married and had children according to the 1910 census, it fell to Elizabeth to care for her aging parents as the only unmarried daughter. Her mother died in 1915 and her father in 1925, freeing her from her responsibility at an age where she was unlikely to marry (50 years). Census records from 1880, 1900, 1910, and 1920 all indicate she lived with her parents in Bonnots Mill, Missouri, where her father owned the local flour mill. At some point during the early 1900s, she also worked at a school in St. Louis. The 1910 census indicated she worked in a local general store, possibly the one owned by her younger sister, Annie, and her husband, Henry. The 1930 census records her living in Orilla, Washington, where she was employed as a seamstress at the Briscoe School, an orphan’s home for boys. Unfortunately, I could not find Elizabeth in the 1940 and 1950 censuses. According to Maryann Samson, Elizabeth’s niece, Elizabeth worked in schools and rest homes in Washington and Oregon during this time.
Above The Meyer Sisters (left to right) Elizabeth, Anna, and Catherine, circa the mid-1890s.
Below Elizabeth with Al Samson, her nephew, circa 1910.
Elizabeth was a trickster and joker. She loved to have fun and had a fantastic sense of humor. Elizabeth loved to travel and explore, which may be why she chose to live in the Pacific Northwest. She reportedly gave cookies to the local children while in Bonnots Mill with her family and was an avid crocheter. My mom remembers Aunt Lizzie and Aunt Annie as very loving and welcoming people. She enjoyed spending time at their house and remembers them answering her questions as a child, which was unusual for the time. Aunt Lizzie also had a good sense of humor about aging. She reportedly told the family often with a laugh and a smile, “Folks, don’t ever get old.” She was a strong, independent, intelligent, and determined woman, just as she appeared in the photograph that captured my attention.
Elizabeth moved back to Bonnots Mill in the early 1950s and lived with her younger sister, Annie. Both sisters reportedly survived primarily on coffee during this time. Unfortunately, twice Elizabeth suffered burns: once when saving some boys from a fire at the school she worked at in St. Louis and another time when rendering fat in her sister’s basement. In retrospect, these incidents foreshadowed her tragic death.
She died along with her younger sister, Annie, in a house fire on February 7, 1954, at 79. Lizzie had broken her hip sometime before the fire and wasn’t very mobile. Her sister returned to the house after telling a neighbor to call the fire department. Annie was determined to get her sister out of the house; however, Annie was a petite person and struggled to assist Elizabeth. The remains of both sisters were found in the front room of the house. They succumbed to smoke inhalation while trying to escape the burning building. While the exact cause of the fire is unknown, the family suspects it originated with the coal oil stove in the kitchen.
Before this research, most of what I knew about Aunt Lizzie surrounded her death. My mom was 7 when she and Aunt Annie died, so this is one of her prominent memories of Aunt Lizzie and Aunt Annie. It is both wonderful to learn more about her life and disappointing that I could not find more. While the historical record gives me a scaffolding for the timing of her life, the essence of who she was relies on the memories of those who loved her. Once those memories are gone, our essence is lost to time.
Hopefully, writing this will keep a piece of her essence around for a little longer.
A special thank you to Maryann Samson for sharing her time, stories, and photographs of Elizabeth Meyer/Al Samson and the Meyer sister.
References
Maryann Samson, personal communications, August 31, 2022.
“United States Census, 1880,” database with images, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:33S7-9YBX-1C5?cc=1417683&wc=XCP8-DP8%3A1589408163%2C1589403346%2C1589395469%2C1589394855 : 24 December 2015), Missouri > Osage > Washington > ED 120 > image 7 of 36; citing NARA microfilm publication T9, (National Archives and Records Administration, Washington, D.C., n.d.)
“United States Census, 1900”, database with images, FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:M389-GYW : 11 March 2022), Lizzie Mezer in entry for Henry Mezer, 1900.
“United States Census, 1910,” database with images, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:M2BV-91Q : accessed 31 August 2022), Henry Meyer, Linn, Osage, Missouri, United States; citing enumeration district (ED) ED 126, sheet 23B, family 314, NARA microfilm publication T624 (Washington D.C.: National Archives and Records Administration, 1982), roll 803; FHL microfilm 1,374,816.
“United States Census, 1920”, database with images, FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:M8CF-WT1 : 2 February 2021), Henry Meyer, 1920.
“United States Census, 1930,” database with images, FamilySearch https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:XC3M-W45 : accessed 2 September 2022), Elizabeth Meyer, Orillia, King, Washington, United States; citing enumeration district (ED) ED 344, sheet 6A, line 9, family 138, NARA microfilm publication T626 (Washington D.C.: National Archives and Records Administration, 2002), roll 2490; FHL microfilm 2,342,224.
Pittenger, H. (2019). Briscoe Memorial Boys School is Founded in Kent on October 24, 1909. https://historylink.org/File/20873